How to Reduce Stress While Building a New Home

By Julie Gordey

Sep. 9, 2025 at 10:53 PM CST

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Buying a home will likely be one of the most important decisions you make in your life – not to mention one of the largest purchases. If you choose to build a new home, the decisions continue throughout the process.

Why it matters: Building a new home is exciting but stressful. These tools help you stay calm, confident, and in control.

Clarify Your Vision

  • List your must-haves vs. nice-to-haves.

    • “Try and be as thorough as possible regarding those things you really want,” says Kira Sterling of Toll Brothers, Inc.

  • Decide on neighborhood, style, and budget early.

Choose the Right Builder

Stay Involved

Communicate Clearly

  • Set expectations for how and when you’ll be updated.

  • Decide whether you want to handle issues directly or let your builder take the lead.

Manage Emotions

Bottom line: Preparation, trust, communication, and perspective make building your dream home far less stressful – and far more rewarding.

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Julie Gordey

A lifelong educator, Julie Gordey, is a retired school administrator.  After years of focusing on education, this University of Texas graduate now travels and enjoys freelance writing for BDX and NewHomeSource.com.